This Silly Thing Might Change Your Day


When was the last time you played, Reader?


Like, truly let go and had fun without a purpose or outcome in mind?


I’m fresh off attending the National Conference on the Value of Play last week, and let me tell you—I played my heart out and had an absolute blast! Most of my days aren’t as play-filled as that, but that’s not the point.


For many of us, “play” feels like a distant memory, something we left behind in childhood.


But here’s the thing: play isn’t just for kids—it’s a biological need for humans at every age.


I’ve learned that the more stressed I feel, the more I need to play. It used to be the last thing on my mind when I was overwhelmed—but now I know it’s the fastest way to reset.

Play helps us:
🎈 Relieve stress and reset our minds.
🎈 Connect with others in more meaningful ways.
🎈 Tap into creativity and fresh perspectives.

The best part? Play doesn’t have to be complicated. It can be as simple as:
✨ Dancing in your kitchen.
✨ Trying something new just for the fun of it (karaoke, anyone?).
✨ Turning a mundane task—like tidying up—into a game.

The research is clear: play improves our mental and physical health. But more than that, it reminds us what it feels like to be fully alive.

So, here’s your invitation:
Take 5 minutes today to do something playful, even if it feels silly. Let yourself laugh, move, or create without worrying about “doing it right.”

Because the truth is, life isn’t about perfection—it’s about the moments that make you smile.

Play Isn’t Just for Kids—It’s How Adults Thrive!

P.S. Sometimes the hardest (and most freeing) thing is giving yourself permission to be silly. Start with the Chicken Banana Dance.🐔🍌 I had a whole room of adults dancing along at my playshop on imagination play — and it was pure joy.

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✨ Coming soon: The Play Challenge
Your Invitation to Hit Pause on Adulting and Let Joy Take Center Stage

Imagine this: 7 days to break free from the grind, reconnect with your playful side, and discover that play isn’t just for kids—it’s the key to thriving as an adult.

Hi! Creator of Power Play™|Resilience & Play Specialist

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